Felicity turns 5! March 2, 2011

It seriously feels like yesterday that we brought this cute, little, innocent baby home from the hospital and we felt like we had NO clue what to do...so 5 years later, she's a bit bigger (50 lbs and 4' tall...the exact size of Joe at his 6 yr check up), not as innocent but still so cute, and we still have NO clue what we are doing...HA! Why does having kids make time go by way faster than you want it to? The days fly by and all of a sudden you are filling out kindergarten registration packets...WHAT?! How is this my life already? I am so not prepared for this next phase; although, we are embracing it and the girls seem more than ready for the next phase of kindergarten and preschool.

I've never been good at capturing who my girls are with words, but thought I'd start now while I have the blog and Felicity just turned 5.

The best way to describe Felicity is exactly how she would want to be described...Princess :)Not only does she love ALL things girly, but she truly wants to be like a princess, proper etiquette and all. Turn on some princess (or Miley Cyrus, unfortunately) music, get her in a dress, microphone in hand and you've got her bursting at the seams. I almost wonder if she will really go into show business;I've been toying with the idea of putting her in some type of singing/choir group. She loves singing, making up songs, remembering songs...thinking that might be a good area to explore. The problem is we've explored mutliple things - ballet, gymnastics - she loves them all...and we cannot afford any ;) And as of now, "all sports are for boys" according to Felicity. That might just devastate her daddy's dreams of free college scholarships though ;)

Felicity is so inquisitive; you can no longer tell her "Just because" or "you wouldn't understand"...she wants to try to understand. She asks amazing questions! Questions that really make you, yourself, think hard! She loves going to Cubbies (awanas), loves preschool, and loves to love her sister (as well as boss her around). Felicity has such a sweet spirit, and strong willed. The last year has been a very challenging one as she discovered her will...to love, to hate, to talk back, to cherish the moments...she wills it all :) But, the past two months have been better, she is learning to think things through, not to react so quickly (gee...where does she learn to react?), go to her room withought fits of screaming rage. It is pretty impressive because I wasn't so sure that stage would end, but she, once again, amazes us! God is using her to teach us, grow us, challenge us, and remind us what God asks of us...to love others as we would like to be loved! It is something we consistently are trying to teach her, but the best way is by example and we're continusouly working on that and how to do it better. When she loves someone, it's amazing, her whole heart just shines! If only we could all be like that with all people. Again I say, God uses our kids to teach us so much!

Our prayer is that this next year, we (me specifically) get better about showing Felicity patience, allowing her to learn how to deal with her problems, and to show her and tell her every day how much we love her for who she is...she is a true gift from God and I don't think we do quite justice to taking care of this precious gift from above.

Felicity Kay Clark - Happy 5th Birthday - may God reveal Himself to you in all the little details over this next year as you try to discover who He is and who you are in Him!